上午就意料到了d。 [M42]
,工钱每月10膏?
[M30]QUOTE Created By E.T. At 2005-7-7
[M14] 跪
QUOTE Created By jessiecxp At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By E.T. At 2005-7-7
[M14] 跪
QUOTE Created By os At 2005-7-7
秋天呢,做女儿的要会说好说歹,撒娇耍赖 [M24] ,总之说得老人家同意为止 [M03] .
QUOTE Created By catter At 2005-7-7
[M11] [M11]
偶没有经验,不好说。这事秋天出马要好点吧。
QUOTE Created By 塞外残阳 At 2005-7-7
让老人家带回去玩几天,三锅和秋天姐姐再去接回来嘛,双赢 [M14]
QUOTE Created By APACHE At 2005-7-7
这个时候岳母对女婿跟女儿的态度可能就不同了,3锅捏??? [M45]
QUOTE Created By 塞外残阳 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By APACHE At 2005-7-7
这个时候岳母对女婿跟女儿的态度可能就不同了,3锅捏??? [M45]
QUOTE Created By 秋天 At 2005-7-7
唉~~其实,妈妈爸爸的方法不错,我赞同,可奶奶不听呀!郁闷~~ [M42] [M42] ——From茈偲
QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
如果让紫菜把自己真实的想法慢慢跟奶奶沟通,应该是可行的!
比如:她约奶奶出去走走,再说!
QUOTE Created By Jessica At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
如果让紫菜把自己真实的想法慢慢跟奶奶沟通,应该是可行的!
比如:她约奶奶出去走走,再说!
QUOTE Created By Jessica At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
如果让紫菜把自己真实的想法慢慢跟奶奶沟通,应该是可行的!
比如:她约奶奶出去走走,再说!
QUOTE Created By 兴高彩烈 At 2005-7-7
以暴制暴,让ZICAI也跟她闹个别扭看看, [M04]
QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By Jessica At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
如果让紫菜把自己真实的想法慢慢跟奶奶沟通,应该是可行的!
比如:她约奶奶出去走走,再说!
QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By Jessica At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
如果让紫菜把自己真实的想法慢慢跟奶奶沟通,应该是可行的!
比如:她约奶奶出去走走,再说!
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
[拥抱] [M06]
我也遇到类似的问题乐~~~
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
[拥抱] [M06]
我也遇到类似的问题乐~~~
[M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
暑假想叫父母和小外甥过来广州,父母当然米有问题,但是姐夫却不想小外甥来广州过暑假,可能也是象JELE那般,有了自己的安排。
天文原先还计划带小外甥去香江动物园、练滑轮,我还计划带小外甥打羽毛球、游泳,看来一锅端地都要泡汤汤乐 [M08] [M30]
QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
呵呵,不用这么烦的,其实你们都是为了紫菜好,执行谁的计划都不重要,就让紫菜自己制定一个暑假计划(包括学习,娱乐等各个方面的),趁机培养一个小孩独立解决问题的能力也不错哦,而且能充分尊重她 [M29] ,我觉得:如果紫菜自己也觉得不想回去,那就不能对老人家轻易让步了 [M29]
[M29]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
呵呵,不用这么烦的,其实你们都是为了紫菜好,执行谁的计划都不重要,就让紫菜自己制定一个暑假计划(包括学习,娱乐等各个方面的),趁机培养一个小孩独立解决问题的能力也不错哦,而且能充分尊重她 [M29] ,我觉得:如果紫菜自己也觉得不想回去,那就不能对老人家轻易让步了 [M29]
QUOTE Created By Jele At 2005-7-7
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[拥抱] [M06]
我也遇到类似的问题乐~~~
[M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
呵呵,不用这么烦的,其实你们都是为了紫菜好,执行谁的计划都不重要,就让紫菜自己制定一个暑假计划(包括学习,娱乐等各个方面的),趁机培养一个小孩独立解决问题的能力也不错哦,而且能充分尊重她 [M29] ,我觉得:如果紫菜自己也觉得不想回去,那就不能对老人家轻易让步了 [M29]
QUOTE Created By ivyqin At 2005-7-7
哦呵,师兄家还出了这等热闹事啊,偶要不要过去瞧瞧啊! [M24]
说笑归说笑,个人觉得回去也不是不行,因为偲CAI比较懂事,即使父母不在身边也不会不听话,也不会象我小时候一样放羊!
如果实在不想让她回去,其实应该早做阿姨的工作,将你们的安排讲清楚,说明白,我相信阿姨不是不讲理的人! [M24] 现在好好说也不迟!
还有,个人觉得,师兄跟阿姨谈会比较有效, [M24] ,秋天别打我,我 [M41]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
三锅谈最终结果紫菜是会留下来,但是现在想谈的是:如何让紫菜既留下来,而各方又都不会生气嘛,尤其是女婿和丈母娘之间不能心存芥蒂。 [M29]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By ivyqin At 2005-7-7
哦呵,师兄家还出了这等热闹事啊,偶要不要过去瞧瞧啊! [M24]
说笑归说笑,个人觉得回去也不是不行,因为偲CAI比较懂事,即使父母不在身边也不会不听话,也不会象我小时候一样放羊!
如果实在不想让她回去,其实应该早做阿姨的工作,将你们的安排讲清楚,说明白,我相信阿姨不是不讲理的人! [M24] 现在好好说也不迟!
还有,个人觉得,师兄跟阿姨谈会比较有效, [M24] ,秋天别打我,我 [M41]
QUOTE Created By 塞外残阳 At 2005-7-7
开盘啦开盘啦
紫菜执行外婆计划 1赔1
紫菜执行3锅计划 1赔2
紫菜执行自己滴计划 1赔3
[M04] [M04] [M04]
QUOTE Created By 秋天 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By os At 2005-7-7
秋天呢,做女儿的要会说好说歹,撒娇耍赖 [M24] ,总之说得老人家同意为止 [M03] .
QUOTE Created By airwolf At 2005-7-7
[M01] 是不是该加个精华呢?
[M20] 是不是j各各也给我一点呢
唉,我想其实老人家这么大脾气其实也是因为越来越象个小孩,觉得你们这样是不顾她的感受,父母上年纪了,跟他们说理是没用的,还得哄着他们,可是我呢。。。。。。 [M13] [M41]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
狼兄,周末又要到啦~~~ [M45] [M25]
QUOTE Created By ivyqin At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By 秋天 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By os At 2005-7-7
秋天呢,做女儿的要会说好说歹,撒娇耍赖 [M24] ,总之说得老人家同意为止 [M03] .
QUOTE Created By Jele At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By ivyqin At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By 秋天 At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By os At 2005-7-7
秋天呢,做女儿的要会说好说歹,撒娇耍赖 [M24] ,总之说得老人家同意为止 [M03] .
QUOTE Created By 布农铃 At 2005-7-7
恐怕很多家曾经、现在或以后都会遇到这样的问题,真怕有这么一天啊 [M13]
但这问题决不会出在我妈这边,因为她又不会带孩子又非常听偶LG的话,经常被女婿开玩笑逗得很开心 [M03]
QUOTE Created By os At 2005-7-7
以前就小孩子的问题,给老人的尺度太宽了,所以收扰来难一点.
早该给老人洗脑:父母是孩子的监护人,孩子的事,做父母的说了算.其他人可以提意见和建议 [M05]
但是,还是要收,速度放慢.给缓冲.
还有,10多岁的小孩子,应该自动跟奶奶沟通,往往孩子说一句,顶大人3句.
(我家儿子,我抱着他,如果别人抢着抱,一般他会反抗,因为他知道,要是给别人抱了,妈妈会借故溜之大吉.所以,他得自己选择,是要漂亮阿姨抱一下子,还是一直赖在妈妈的臂弯 [M20] [M04] [M04] )
很快,我家也有一个小女孩子来过快乐暑假,可能也会遇见一些情况 [M18]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
[M09] 难道就不是我的意见吗
心灵 [M27] ,蝈蝈,没有百个,88个难抚心的巨痛啊~~~ [M06] [M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
再看也是后面补上的,明显儿偶们就是粘粘补补的料。 [M06] [M06] [M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
再看也是后面补上的,明显儿偶们就是粘粘补补的料。 [M06] [M06] [M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By ivyqin At 2005-7-7
[quote]QUOTE Created By 布农铃 At 2005-7-7
恐怕很多家曾经、现在或以后都会遇到这样的问题,真怕有这么一天啊 [M13]
但这问题决不会出在我妈这边,因为她又不会带孩子又非常听偶LG的话,经常被女婿开玩笑逗得很开心 [M03]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
再看也是后面补上的,明显儿偶们就是粘粘补补的料。 [M06] [M06] [M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
领斗士和二少两个大老爷们一屁股坐在水泥地上,老泪纵横一把鼻涕一把泪地拥抱在一起~~~~ [M06] [M06]
QUOTE Created By Jele At 2005-7-7
吃完晚饭,偶们小心翼翼d开始和丈母娘讨论这个问题,谁知刚表达完让丈母娘一个人平平安安回老家去,留下娃儿和偶们高高兴兴过暑假的意思,老银家基本上木有说啥就"哐叽"一声进了房。过了一小会,小家伙慌慌张张来报:"奶奶把包袱都收拾好了!她还说了,既不要你们买车票,也不要你们送她上火车~~" [M42] [M08] [M10] [M13] [M13] [M13]
得,这下还真不好办鸟。[M30]
QUOTE Created By 黎明一刻 At 2005-7-7
泪眼 [M06] 巴眨地望着J三蝈,一边抽泣 [M06] 一边问:真滴木有一点安抚 [M27] 丫~~~~~ [M06]
QUOTE Created By 兴高彩烈 At 2005-7-7
人家J蝈蝈正在烦着呢,你们倒争风一人喝起二两醋来了。
果然是 [M34]
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