所以说，这年头，女人保护好自己最重要。
Since ancient times, men and women between the views of sex there is a big gap, but more importantly, in the marriage of their attitudes are quite different. There are too many men as a kind of sexual pleasure, can be consumed anytime, anywhere; and women but the feelings of love and marriage as an extension, must be taken seriously, allows no profanity.
Differences between men and women caused by the marriage stage a "bottleneck", but also explains why many women can tolerate her husband's affair; the other hand, a man will leave his wife's infidelity.
The reason why men derailed because they, as a matter of course such a thing as `a matter of course. They believe that, go to bed with different women is their birthright, never thinking about whether their actions will bring about what kind of consequences.
Men now require more of a woman, not only beautiful, it is necessary to build good, but also culture, and temperament, the woman now demands more of men, and men should have room car, a career academic, There are grade, will be romantic. And then to our own good, but also your parents, it can be called a good man.
The problem is that there is such a good man you may not be derailed? Of course it is very difficult.
The community to "indulgence" to provide too many opportunities, especially for a lack of money, there are qualifications, there is taste, the men would be romantic, even more so.
I can say that each have a fixed partner in the hearts of men expect to have a desire to export. But the export is not necessarily another addition to his wife outside the woman, is also possible that the football, basketball, wine, calligraphy琴棋In short, can be anything, but the desire of most men is a single primitive, most will be the export of men chose the woman, it caused the derailment now Curse of the situation of men.
However, I have another idea, to say the derailment, the women of the reasons more fully, I will talk about simple.
Women more likely than men to find the target. Was forced to admit that now, at least in China, the proportion of men and women a little disorder, more and more men, so women have more options than men, a little beauty of a woman at an early age, there is a lot of men getting pounded;
Women face even greater pressure. There are a lot of men running off the track will make the excuse that the pressure of their own, but this woman? The pressure of promotion, career bottlenecks workplace sexual harassment, even after getting married children are faced with issues such as home, the pressure is not more than men do?
Women were more eager to love. This is the biggest difference between men and women, men prefer to care for others, while women like to be more concerned about others. After getting married and most men feel that the relationship has stabilized, and unwilling to pay more attention to women, and women at this time whether it is psychological or physiological is more in need of care;
Women the risk coefficient is not derailed. A majority of married women will habitually have a sense of crisis, from defending against her husband, in which high-pressure policy, the man is the derailment would have some difficulty. But the woman, by contrast, most men are hunter-type, home to marry a woman down on the done, rest assured that in porn and alcohol in the outside, so relatively safe derailment women;
Women more economic health derailment. Call a spade a spade, men would like to derailment may have silver status, spending a lot of men which can not afford, and if people did not find very easily on some people see the disease may not be.
However, these women would not have to worry about, as long as a little beauty, as long as a little bit feminine, so long as you are willing, there will always be a free man送上门来, well you will lose out;
Most women will not affect the derailment family harmony. Most men will derailment caused the family鸡飞狗跳, mistress of the women willing to do very little, even in the beginning is to love, but they will not be long before登堂入室wanted to, much ruin men, family breakdown . And women are often derailed not have to worry about these little men with non-死缠烂打to marry you;
Finally, this may be the reason most men do not want to hear, that is, compared to men, the woman's physical structure is more dominant. A woman can easily deal with a few men and not significant between the fatigue, and a man would like to deal with two women at the same time it is very difficult. Often, women still able to meet her husband was having an affair, and the man his wife was having an affair is only a basic need.
Saw it, in fact, derailed this issue, more the position of women more than men, but at more than 90% of women will not be derailed, even if some heart, but also know that pull back from the brink. But men do and will never think of this woman's greatness.
So, in recent years, a woman to protect their most important.